DOES PUNISHING BULLIES HELP?

This blog was prepared and accomplished by Smahi Vijay in her personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this blog are the author's own.

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Does punishing bullies help… is it an asset, it just revolves around prospects like is it perquisite or obliging for our global, vulnerable communes, how does it trace the evolution of geniality and happiness in the bully catalyst? So without further ado, let us water it down.

For starters, let’s devour the fact that bullies are also elements of humankind, together we all form a constituent body, an aggregated entity and they also went through some type of mishap/ recurring pathos tragedy or fiasco that brought them to this stance. Bullies show many selfish and detestable, nonetheless barbaric dispositions to name a few but there is always an interior cause to it, which we overlook and agree to disagree with, my opinion is that the way they express it is totally unacceptable! When we come to think about it actually, it harms the mental introspective organs and nervous system functioning of the recipient as well. For what it’s worth, we can always try to approach them in a cordial way and instead of punishing them, we can help by paving the way back to what is valid. What I mean is, punishment won’t lead you anywhere….it just imbibes more bad blood between fellow beings and strikes to deem one another as a horrific rival. The outcome is nowhere gratifying nor catering to the fact that the attitude of the bully will change in any circumstance. Of course, if we analyze the mindset of this person, who is facing the wrath i.e., bullied victim, then we can empathize with his perceptions and the infuriated, pestered dismount he/ she is in currently... On the opposite of the barricade, we search for the emotions of the bully, who might be going through some rancor or anguish too... We must have an open-ended discussion, under the guidance of another elderly person, just to clear the air out. Who knows, maybe there were some immoral twigs stuck in there … We must take the moral high ground and avoid such situations as well. Punishing bullies won’t be as effective as being a guiding light to them for the better good. When it comes to domestic violence/ physical attack, a person may be scarred both mentally and physically. We have to put an end to this, maybe even by a pint-sized stride ahead, taking the high road, or putting yourself in another’s shoes. There are always answers to each hurdle/stitch in your life. Be responsive and considerate before you actually utter something to another person, we are all just humans, not immortals nor invincible.

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My full name is Smahi Vijay, I am from Meerut, a fraternal city located in the state of Uttar Pradesh, India

I am currently 12 years old, an aspiring humane philanthropist.

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Hey! The name’s Smahi Vijay, a teenager with colossal aims and desires.

In the unprecedented times, I came to realize how gloomy and despondent the world was , through my starry-eyed, visionary nights. This is the rudimentary reason why I have founded the Gurugram HopeCollective -The Light of hope from pillar-to-post , one life brightened at a time. We try to inculcate all the virtues of faith, trust, and empathy in the vulnerable communities we pertain to , pave the path for them, and help them indulge themselves in vocational , pragmatic learning skills. I have a lot of passions as a well-versed teen as to inculcate all my moral rites and virtues of hope. I am best at public speaking, writing, hosting events, being holistical, dancing, singing and voicing my thoughts. Also some of my hobbies are playing badminton and learning new facts :) 🌻

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